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Im busy focusing on my career so I posted an ad for fun on a casual site, stating i wanted to go out for dinner & drinks and that i was not married so I was available for a good time. However my photo was a bikini photo. Not expecting much. I received several responses but one stood out. His response was very classy, offering dinner and drinks. He is mid 30s, with a child not married. After a few emails back anfd forth things got a litlte graphic, very flirty and ******. We both were open to something sexual and fun. We set a date for the weekend. However we continued to email eachther all day. He asked me to call him & i told him that would be a bit strange for our casual situation and that phone convo etc was mostly a relationship/couple thing. However he coached me into calling him. When i called, I was surprised, we ended talking for like 6 hrs. i explained to him how we could cancel until we got our STD test done, for safety. He said no he didnt want to cancel and that he was patient. Well we had our date, he was on time and dressed sharply. We went to a nice italian resteraunt unlike apple bees or the casuals. The conversation flowed on everything from politics to our craziest relationship moment etc. He did mention marriage related things or things refering to his future wife more than once. He’s also mentioned he’s had his share of women and was more selective. Things did get a little heated and there was a little touching but nothing too sexual. After dinner & drinks, I offered to pay my half, he declined and payed with no problem. I told him to just wait for me at the door, i had to use the bathroom, we had parked on the back side of the resteraunt, so when i had come he was pulled up at the front door for me. After a little ride around, and a little flirting, he took me home an hour prior to the time I had told him i’d like to be in. & we had a very exciting and sensual tounge kiss before I got out the car. I realized that I’d forgotten to say thank you so i emailed him this morning simply saying thank you and for the nice time and have a great day. he responded within 30 minutes and said Your welcome and have a nice day too. Ok here’s the delimna. Ive had a casual fling before, and the guy was not trying to get to know me like this current one. We did not talk on the phone for 6 hrs and he was crying bout the bill at the resteraunt trying to get a discount from the manager. Im completely throwed on this one. Ofcourse Im going to wait on his next move, but Is this odd for a casual situation? Guys is this how you’d treat your cut buddy’s or is this odd? I think im more concerned because he’s treating it like a relationship and Id **** to hurt his feelings.
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Im busy focusing on my career so I posted an ad for fun on a casual site, stating i wanted to go out for dinner & drinks and that i was not married so I was available for a good time. However my photo was a bikini photo. Not expecting much. I received several responses but one stood out. His response was very classy, offering dinner and drinks. He is mid 30s, with a child not married. After a few emails back anfd forth things got a litlte graphic, very flirty and ******. We both were open to something sexual and fun. We set a date for the weekend. However we continued to email eachther all day. He asked me to call him & i told him that would be a bit strange for our casual situation and that phone convo etc was mostly a relationship/couple thing. However he coached me into calling him. When i called, I was surprised, we ended talking for like 6 hrs. i explained to him how we could cancel until we got our STD test done, for safety. He said no he didnt want to cancel and that he was patient. Well we had our date, he was on time and dressed sharply. We went to a nice italian resteraunt unlike apple bees or the casuals. The conversation flowed on everything from politics to our craziest relationship moment etc. He did mention marriage related things or things refering to his future wife more than once. He’s also mentioned he’s had his share of women and was more selective. Things did get a little heated and there was a little touching but nothing too sexual. After dinner & drinks, I offered to pay my half, he declined and payed with no problem. I told him to just wait for me at the door, i had to use the bathroom, we had parked on the back side of the resteraunt, so when i had come he was pulled up at the front door for me. After a little ride around, and a little flirting, he took me home an hour prior to the time I had told him i’d like to be in. & we had a very exciting and sensual tounge kiss before I got out the car. I realized that I’d forgotten to say thank you so i emailed him this morning simply saying thank you and for the nice time and have a great day. he responded within 30 minutes and said Your welcome and have a nice day too. Ok here’s the delimna. Ive had a casual fling before, and the guy was not trying to get to know me like this current one. We did not talk on the phone for 6 hrs and he was crying bout the bill at the resteraunt trying to get a discount from the manager. Im completely throwed on this one. Ofcourse Im going to wait on his next move, but Is this odd for a casual situation? Guys is this how you’d treat your cut buddy’s or is this odd? I think im more concerned because he’s treating it like a relationship and Id **** to hurt his feelings.
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it sounds like he is looking for something a little more serious than a casual fling, but some guys are just romantic in nature like that and figure if they are going to take a girl out they might as well do it right, i wouldn’t read too much into it as of now there is nothing wrong with being kind and romantic to a date